How to Simplify Advent with Little Kids: 5 Simple, Stress-Free Tips

Advent is a beautiful time of anticipation, but for busy moms with little ones, it can feel overwhelming. Between decorating, shopping, and trying to create meaningful memories, it’s easy to feel stretched thin. The good news? You can celebrate Advent in a way that’s fun, meaningful, and manageable—even with toddlers in tow! Here are five practical tips to help you slow down and savor the season.

1. Keep It Simple (Really Simple!)

Don’t overcomplicate your Advent traditions. A five-minute family devotional can be just as meaningful as an elaborate ceremony. Short attention spans call for short activities! Consider a simple nightly reading or lighting a candle while sharing a quick prayer. We love the quick Liturgy in this book in the Advent chapter.

Pro Tip: Make this time about connection, not perfection. Even a quick moment of reflection can create lasting memories. We are working on patience as it relates to advent so we all try to be completely quiet for 1 minute. It's a long minute, just ask the two year old. 

2. Pace Yourself: Decorate in Stages

Feel like decorating is a marathon? Break it up! One week, put up the tree. The next week, add lights. The following week, bring out the ornaments. Spreading things out helps keep the chaos at bay and lets you enjoy the process rather than rushing through it. It also keeps you from having to take it all down from the attic at once.

Why It Works: Kids love seeing each step unfold. It also gives them something to look forward to each week, keeping the excitement alive throughout the season.

3. Involve Others: Make It Social

Advent doesn’t have to be a solo family effort. Host a simple birthday party for Jesus, invite friends over for an Advent-themed playdate, or plan a craft session with other moms. These moments build community and add joy to the season.

Bonus Tip: Keep it low-pressure. A simple snack and a craft kit are all you need to make it special. Add in a Christmas picture book and that's all you need!

4. Shop Early and Then Stop

Spending creates stress, especially when it’s last-minute. Aim to get your Christmas shopping done early, and then take a spending break. Advent is about rest and waiting, not frantically hunting for deals.

Mindset Shift: Once the gifts are purchased, resist the urge to keep adding more. The simplicity of a thoughtful present outweighs a pile of last-minute buys.

5. Stay Flexible: Do What Works This Year

Not every tradition has to be permanent. What works this year might not next year, and that’s okay! Focus on what feels manageable now. If something feels like too much, let it go without guilt.

Permission to Pivot: Your kids won’t remember if you skipped a craft or changed up the routine—they’ll remember how you made them feel.

Bonus Tip: Use What You Have

Repurpose books or toys your kids haven’t seen in a while. Wrap a few up and let them open one each night as a surprise or choose those toys to donate to kids in need. It’s simple, budget-friendly, and adds a bit of generosity in an easy way.

Final Thoughts: Simplicity Wins Every Time

Advent doesn’t have to be elaborate to be meaningful. By simplifying your approach and focusing on connection over perfection, you can create a season filled with joy and peace. Remember: Don’t be a hero. Simplicity wins every time.

What are your favorite ways to simplify Advent with little ones? Share your tips below—I’d love to hear them! 🎄